Have you ever wondered how to spot your soulmate or what are the signs of a soulmate? Thanks toDisney-Movieand classic Hollywood romances, most people grew up thinking that they would find their soulmate and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, it's common to go decades without finding "the one" or even knowing what signs of soulmates to look for. Consequently, the concept of a soulmate can seem like a silly fantasy.
However, if you look around you will see that there are couples that prove soul mates exist. That means you too can find and nurture that dream relationship... if you look for the relevant clues and even ask the right questions, like these:
How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
What is a soul mate like?
What Happens When You Find Your Soulmate?
Here are 14 soulmate signs to look out for so you can tell when you've found them.
Identify your soulmate with these 14 soulmate signs
1. You have a strong intuition
When you are in a statemanifest love, there is often a flash of recognition that happens when you meet a soul mate. Sometimes it feels like the phenomenon of love at first sight manifestation, and other times it's more like a strong sense of intimacy.
So if you feel comfortable, energized, and intimate with someone, even if you've only just met them, chances are that relationship will go all the way.
2. They are best friends
There is a myth that romantic partners cannot be close friends.
In fact, however, a strong friendship is the basis for a lasting romance. When you find your soulmate, you also meet your best friend!
It's still important to have friendships outside of your relationship. This simply means that they easily "move" to a deeper level than they normally experience, sharing a sense of humor and quickly becoming each other's number one support.
3. There is mutual respect
Relationships often fall apart when both people try to change each other. In contrast, soulmates respect each other on a basic level. Also, that respect is based on really knowing yourself (faults and all).
So if you genuinely accept someone despite their quirks and neuroses and feel that acceptance comes unconditionally, that could be a soul mate connection.
4. They have the same vision of the future
This is one of the most important signs that you have found your soulmate, as it is not only an indication of a deep connection but also one of the most reliable indicators of a happy relationship.
When you don't share core values, don't picture your future the same way, and want the same things in life, resentment grows and the relationship begins to go awry. So if you meet someone who really sees their life unfolding the way you want it to be, you've struck gold!
5. You challenge yourself
Your ideal partner will not only admire you for everything you have done, but will also open your eyes to everything you could ever do. This can be challenging because it means that you two will often encourage each other to do itget out of your comfort zone.
However, the unique combination of challenge and support that a soulmate offers is an important catalyst for personal growth and development. And in the future you will surely thank each other for all the encouragement and care you have received over the years!
6. Relationship struggles
No relationship is conflict free, even when soul mates get together. There will always be obstacles and bumps in the road. But whether they're trying to deal with family difficulties, financial worries, illness, job insecurity, or parenting issues, a couple destined to be together will continue to fight for their relationship.
Basically, they will find ways to fight together to make things better because they both want the relationship to survive more than they want to defend their own egos.
7. They may be apart but prefer to be together
Soulmates can find the right balance between spending time together and spending time apart. They trust each other and still feel close doing things separately instead of being consumed by feelings that aren't working. Then there is a need to understand andovercome jealousyÖdeal with fear.
At the same time, if you are in a relationship with your soulmate, you also know that you are happier and more fulfilled when you enjoy time together.
If spending time together seems like a chore to you, think about why.
What's better than hanging out with your best friend, your favorite lover, your biggest fan, and your best teammate?
8. You feel comfortable being authentic.
Finally, it's common to have a variety of skins that you use in different situations to adapt. However, one of the most rewarding things about being with a soulmate is that there is no need to pretend. Instead, you automatically act like yourself and seem to show yourself for who you really are.
Being genuine in this way opens you both to deeper forms of intimacy, and often on the first date you realize that there is incredible potential.
9. You identify with them
When you find your soulmate, your empathy increases. In other words, they feel the successes and losses of others as if they were their own. For example, getting promoted at work is like being rewarded for your skills. And when they fight with a difficult family member, it's like you're caught up in that conflict too. You know instantly when it's time to celebrate and when it's time to mourn.
BecomeempatheticThis allows them to feel like a team and prevent jealousy or competition from developing in the relationship. More importantly, sensing the feelings of others allows for a deep understanding, even in areas where other people have had trouble understanding you in the past. And as a bonus, you will often find that soulmate empathy boosts your self-esteem and allows you to see yourself and all your qualities through the eyes of a loved one for the first time.
10. You start balancing.
There is a common misconception that soulmates are just copies of each other. In reality, finding a soulmate is more about finding someone who perfectly complements you than someone who is identical. For example, you probably have a compatible set of core values and a fairly similar idea of what a wonderful life together would be like. However, you may have a different family background and some contrasting personality traits. The key is that these differences don't create confrontations, but rather a sense of balance.
For example, you might be very spontaneous while your perfect match is a bit more thoughtful. Under you, you are responsible for making a decision, but you will not work on it forever. In the meantime, you might be more outgoing and they might be reserved. This means that sometimes you may have different needs, but your calmer partner will help you ground yourself, and you, in turn, will help you be more sociable.
11. Both are aware of each other's emotional language
The core idea behind “emotional languages” or “love languages“ is that we all express and experience love in different ways.
This means that sometimes we express our sincere interest in someone and find that it doesn't reach that person because they speak a different "language".
While you don't have to speak the same language as your partner, soulmates always at least understand how to speak each other's emotional language.
Sometimes, despite our best intentions, it's all too easy not to make our partner feel loved.
These are the five main emotional languages you can use to communicate love.
- Words of affirmation, through words of love and appreciation.
- Creating quality time, but special, focused time together.
- Acts of service, doing things that help lighten your burden.
- Physical touch through non-verbal interactions such as hugging and kissing.
- Gifts, through gifts and gestures that express gratitude.
When your soulmate speaks the emotional language of service, you will know that when you fix something around the house, she will feel your love most clearly. On the other hand, if your emotional language is touch, your partner will know that you need a hug when you're feeling down.
12. You trust your partner completely
None of us feels completely safe all the time. When you're aware of your partner's worth, you know that others are likely to recognize them, too. It can sometimes make you a little jealous. However, when you are with your soulmate, these feelings should be fleeting and have nothing to do with distrusting your partner. For example, it's one thing to suspect that your partner's co-worker is flirting with them and quite another to try to ban your partner from seeing that person. In the first case, you feel a little territorial; in the second you are controlling and suspicious.
But even with a soul mate, you may need to work on learning to trust someone. When you've been hurt before, it can be difficult to relax in love. However, over time, when you are with your perfect partner, you will give and receive complete trust.
13. They've met before
It's common to ask, "Have I met my soulmate yet?"
Crossing your path is often accompanied by a strong sense of familiarity.
The answer is yes. They almost certainly met at some point in the past and just didn't make a soul connection.
For example, it's common to find out that you lived in the same city as someone for years before you met. Or even find out you work upstairs in your office.
They will only meet when the time is right. When both of you are willing to build something real and lasting out of that initial bond.
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14. They don't threaten each other.
Finally, while everyone fights sometimes, it will never escalate into emotional abuse with your soulmate. That means you don't try to hurt each other with cruel words, threaten each other with breakup, or play power games. If you are with an emotionally abusive partner, it is a strong sign that they are not the right partner for you. Of course there will be times when one of you will hurt the other, but in the right relationship this hurt is never intentional and there is a shared desire to work on improving communication and clarity to avoid future conflicts.
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